What is Double Texting And What Are Its Pros And Cons?

If you notice that the conversation is hitting a dead end, you can easily restart the conversation by double texting your date. You can show your date that you always have topics up your sleeve to talk about. Moreover he/she will also notice that you’re interested in continuing the conversation with them. Whenever you find the conversation hitting a dead end, you can begin your double text by saying, “I just remembered to ask you something, completely off the topic.” Or, “A quick one — Marvel or DC?”

Some people like guys/girls who don’t give up on texting them even if they don’t reply. At this point, they are just testing you to see how interested you are in them. So if your date is not replying to you, there are chances that he/she is testing how much you are into them. And at this point if you show that you’re not willing to give up, voila! You’ve got yourself another date.

Let’s be honest. All of us feel like double texting our dates when we are interested in them. Only some of us actually show our true colours. Then how can you say that they aren’t thinking of double texting themselves? Some our able to show restraint while others give in and show the white flag. If your date is one who shows restraint, he/she will like it that you at least had the guts to show your genuine interest through double texting rather than putting up a disinterested front.

Let’s accept it. In the new era of dating, nobody likes to come off as clingy and desperate. It acts as a big red flag and you can say goodbye to your date. This is something that happens when you double text too much. Here are 5 cons of double texting.

Double texting can ruin a perfectly good date. You begin with one text and it keeps following. Before you know it, your date has read all your texts and is ready to hit the block button. People don’t like their dates being clingy after the first date itself and you’ve done exactly that. You may keep sending them texts like, “Hey, you’re there” and not get any reply from the other end.

You must have heard of the proverb,” Words once spoken can never be taken back.” Well, that proverb was made for a reason because once you double text, you can’t take the texts back. You may delete them, but it will leave a big trail of deleted messages behind. You need to think carefully before you double text. Read them properly before you press the send button because otherwise, you’ll end up feeling stupid later on.

In the beginning, they might choose to ignore your double texting, but if it becomes a habit, they could find it annoying and start avoiding you. You need to know when to stop double texting and have a normal conversation with your date. Keep it breezy and casual. Reply only when your date replies, even though it makes you crazy inside. Also, wait for 5–10 minutes before sending your reply.

For those who don’t know what barking is, here’s a conversation for you:
Hey
I
Just
Wanted
To
Know
How
You’re
Doing
The urge to double text makes you do some crazy things and such a thing is barking. You’ll end up sending him/her one sentence in multiple texts and you’ll just end up barking like a little puppy with no response from the other end. Barking is a big turn off for the recipient.

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